I don’t know about others, but I have difficulties seeing my nephew as an adult (he will soon become one).
The other day, I was on speaker phone, and he asked
me – So what’s new? What’s going on in your life?
And I got stuck. I don't talk to my nephew
like that. Until yesterday I was worried about how to make him laugh and show
him what cats are passing through the area. And now I'm going to tell him about
my life? Is he ready for this? 😊 Would he understand? Or would I bore him? And, in fact, what is he asking me about?
I quickly came to my senses and mumbled
something. But this worry has taken its toll on me. Things change, and I must
adapt.
But even so, what do you do in these
moments? How do you make the change?
Surely there are other uncles and aunts
who have to face the same difficulties. How do you cope with them?