I'll be modest, sincere and straight to the point. My
nephew is wondrous.
Since he was a little boy he started reminding us about a
face of dignity we forgot it existed. He never does a thing just because
someone tells him he has to or because 'it's the nice thing to do'. You either
give him some arguments, or you leave it alone! And I must say that those
arguments must be good. He's skittish, stubborn, and stands out from a crowd of
adults when asking if he could help. He's turned 6 glorious years and juggles
already with two foreign languages. I might as well admit it - I'm proud of
him!
But most of all, I like the glow in his eyes when I
give him an answer to one of his questions. The way he looks at me has serious
repercussions on my self-esteem. I remember that some time ago I was trying to
teach him how to snap his fingers. He was fascinated about the sound that I
made using my thumb and middle finger. I am older, and then this is somewhat a
certainty that I can do things that he cannot. Yet.
On a Sunday, we were laying on the couch (after trying to
put together some puzzle pieces), and my nephew remembered it was Scooby time.
Considering that he did not know how to turn on the TV, he asked me – the adult – to work the magic. Surely I’m
not the most nontechnical person in the world, but once they started to use two
remotes for a TV set, I found another reason not to use it anymore. But I told
myself that I should at least give it a try for the sake of my nephew. And I
did. Two tries. And then I pressed a button on the second remote. A red light
flickered from the TV set, but the screen remained as black as ever. If at the
beginning, my nephew gave me a somewhat trustful look, when I pressed a button
on the second remote, it was clear to him that I was ‘the adult’ only when it
didn’t come to the turning on of the TV set. Still, he quickly overcame the
disappointment and concentrated on finding a solution. Making towards the kitchen,
he called out to his mother:
‘Mommy, won’t you come?! Eme doesn’t know how to turn on
the TV.’
It seems that the time of glory ‘I’m and adult and I have
answers to your questions’ might soon come to an end. I got to be quick about
it and teach him one more important thing. Namely, how to blow a bubble with
chewing gum.
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