“Even from a young age, we are forced to do
so many stupid things, thinking they are essential.”
So let’s, starting from today, not do them anymore.
So let’s, starting from today, not do them anymore.
I read this line in a book and it got my thinking. So much that I started making a list of them:
- Not to stop a discussion even when the tone of the person speaking to you is obviously taunting.
- To believe everything you are told without even trying to see for yourself if the situation/ person presents to you in the same way
- To insist on giving proof of being good/ serious/ organized/ motivated to a person who has already made up their mind about you being a lesser person
- To listen on-and-on to monologues on your mobile, when you are allowed to speak for only 5 minutes
- To answer to calls on your mobile, day and night and night and day, as if it is a chip under your skin and people would see and judge you for not answering them
- To let yourself be blackmailed with others’ expectations on you
- Not to stand your ground when someone is constantly attacking you, for fear of being seen as aggressive
- To do certain things only because everyone around you does it
- Not to take personal time, for fear of being seen as selfish
- To lie to yourself that you will get to love something that is totally indifferent to you
- Not to declaim against abuse, for fear of being seen as pretentious
- To be ashamed of your ambitions
What about you? What is on your list?
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