These two books are a roll of feelings that the one carefully unfolds, not because it is imposed on one, but because one needs to truly absorb the experiences told, the conclusions drawn, the questions asked, and one needs to confrunt all of them, look at oneself, to wonder and to forgive oneself.
The readers are witnessing a dissection that is moderately carried out,
but not less painful.
In și ‘Remain to me’ we have interventions of the Self directed to the Little
Self. Only those that never experienced loss, suffering, depression cannot
understand the necessary and beneficial role they have.
And because no matter what I write, you will be more convinced by the
contents of the book, Ițve chosen excerpts from each one of the two books.
Excerpt from ‘Return to myself’
‘ ...
I think this is the first thing I understood during the first years I
started going to therapy, that a negative thing should and must not cancel the
positive ones. It took me a lot of time to understand how high the impact of an
action that we make can have, and most of the times we never think before it.
When did you last scream at someone? When did you last snapped at someone? Did
you tell someone you cannot
stand them, even though that’s not
true? I did.’
Excerpt from ‘Remain to me’
‘ ...
The truth is that love is never a certainty; it’s
a continuous battle between what we feel and what we think we should feel. It
is a pledge we make with ourselves, putting all our hopes on the illusion that,
this time, it can be different. ’
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