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I was really impressed to see this message. 

I was so used to seeing cars with notes on the dashboard containing phone numbers, apologies, and assurances that the owner would come right away to move the car. Or notes with threats because the car had been parked in a private parking space.

I’m reading it, I like it, and I recommend it

For the past few weeks, I’ve been enjoying one of the books written by Ms. Mariana Badea.

We should all care about speaking our native language correctly, and I like that this book helps me correct my mistakes or remember grammar rules.

In addition to explanations—accompanied by examples—regarding the common and not-so-common mistakes we make in everyday speech, each short chapter includes a “Bonus” section.

Here’s the most delightful one of all (in Romanian).

I’m impressed

We don’t tell people often enough that they impress us—with who they are and what they do.

Instead, we spend too much time on those who let us down—especially those we never would have expected, against whom we had no defense, believing they’d always be on our side (B.U.G. Mafia puts it most clearly: “and how some people turn into such b... you won’t even believe it”).

I really, really want to fix this. I’m coming your way!

Reasons to be proud

Nothing makes me happier than seeing someone who’s equipped to handle manipulation. Being on your guard and realizing that some people want to steer you toward a situation that benefits them far more than it does you is no small thing.

Let's take informed decisions!

Amble

 

May Everyone Live, And May Us Never Die

 

This Town

 

The Little Pleasures of Death - Goran Mrakić

I had a wonderful time reading this book. It took me back in time, reminding me of similar experiences I’ve had or heard about from others, but what I enjoyed most were the author’s subtle comparisons and insights regarding the stories in the book.

Humor, whether dark or not, is present throughout these pages and plays an important role, serving as a guide for those willing to make the effort to understand the past and the underlying implications of the conclusions that some people so readily throw around (starting with “things were better back then…”).

And a few excerpts:

‘…

You will always be of much greater use to this world if you make bread, cheese, and polenta than if you drop bombs on people’s homes.

 

…

We know these times will pass. We know that one day we’ll rejoice, we’ll cheer, we’ll be overcome with joy. We know we’ll burn their photos, we’ll give them the finger, we’ll spit in their wake, and we’ll carry on with our lives. Fools that we are, we believe in a better world. But we also feel… that our children, grandchildren, and great-grandchildren—if we ever have them—will, in turn, live life at a snail’s pace, while others watch them laughing from windows high above.

…

‘

Hard by the forest – Leo Vardiashvili

There are books that lift you out of the mundane routine of everyday life and show you why literature is perhaps the most important proof that we live in a fantastic world.

Following in the footsteps of his brother and father, Saba takes us through the terrifying depths of human pettiness and the horrors of war. Yet at the same time, we are shown that humans are kind, selfless, loyal, and loving.

This book is a masterpiece, and I believe in every comforting word in it!

 

‘…

“Why is everything written in English?”

“We're pretending to be Americans, man.”

“Why?”

Nodar shrugged.

“All I know is that just because you stick feathers up your butt doesn't mean you're a chicken.”

 

…

 

Fairytales must be read until the very end.

 

… ‘

Vlad Musatescu

Today, Vlad would have been 104 years old.

My love for his books and the hope that others will get curious and read them are still going strong.

Thank you, Master!

Music

 

Di chi sono nuestro giorni?

 

Seasons

Don't be surprised by the facts. Learn to enjoy it and that's that!

When I’ll Be Grand

I was reading the first pages of ‘The Most Secret Memory of Men’ by Mohamed Mbougar Sarr when I remembered why I wrote ‘Laura Rise – Detained’.

With the publication of my latest book, I found myself in all sorts of discussions that piqued my interest or encouraged me to think even more about what it means to be a writer today.

Writers just starting out have written to me asking if I have any valuable advice that might bring them closer to being published.

With seven books already published (eight, if I count the bilingual edition of ‘Adventures of tourists’), you might consider me an experienced writer. But I don’t see myself that way. Or at least, not yet. I still have a lot to learn, and when you’re not a big name (or even a medium-sized one), you sometimes have to make sure you climb in through the window when the door is slammed in your face.

These days, a writer doesn’t just write (perhaps only those who are well-known and make a living from their writing, since they already have a team handling their PR, social media pages, blogs, and so on). Thus, now, a writer has to do marketing, PR, copywriting, and much more. All of this takes up a lot of time and drains your energy (a heads-up for introverts).

When I make it big (as a writer), I’d like to just worry about choosing the cover and making the edits suggested by the editors. To know that I just have to write and I’ll be published, no matter what, without having to spend time convincing publishers that my work is worth publishing. I don’t lack inspiration for writing, so I’m determined to make it big. Until then, I promise to hold on tight and stay balanced on this carousel I call the writer’s life.

My carousel looks something like this, but that doesn’t mean it’s identical to other writers’—no one fully understands another’s experiences. I’ll break it down into noteworthy elements and, here or there, I’ll try to offer some advice.

• Create social media accounts—Facebook, Instagram, TikTok, YouTube, etc.—so potential readers and publishers can find you more easily (some publishers value you having these accounts).
• If you’ve published at least one book, create an author account on Goodreads—readers can rate your work, recommend your book to friends, and you can connect with reader groups, read books that inspire you, and reach other readers and authors.
• Do you have a manuscript? Send it. But before you do, make sure your work fits the publisher’s portfolio; otherwise, you’ll be wasting your time and theirs. Pay close attention to the submission guidelines—some publishers want the full manuscript, while others prefer just a few pages and a synopsis.
• Author’s CV – While not all publishers require a writer’s CV, it’s a good idea to include one. Start with your most recently published book, or if you’ve published in magazines, blogs, etc.
• Pitch – A pitch is a kind of presentation of your work, except that this presentation needs to sell—that is, to convince the editor.
• Timing – This factor is just as important as the ones above. If you send your proposal on days when they’re off (weekends, public holidays), chances are your email will get lost in the spam folder. So remember not to send the email on weekends, public holidays, or two weeks before and after book fairs, when publishing house staff are working intensely or recovering from events.
• Email addresses – publishers usually have a dedicated email address for submitting manuscripts. If you can find the email addresses of the editors who handle your literary genre, your chances improve (at least that your manuscript will reach the right person).
• When should you follow up? Publishers usually have a standard policy: if you don’t hear back within X months, your manuscript has been tacitly rejected. Make a note of the date you submitted your manuscript, and if the publisher doesn’t follow this standard policy, follow up with an email.
• Can you resubmit the manuscript? Sure, but in my opinion, only if you’ve made relevant changes.
• Reread it! Nothing is perfect, and that includes your manuscript. Make sure to take another look at it after taking a break of at least two months. I guarantee you’ll find things to correct!
• Ask for help! It’s hard to ask for help, I know. It means putting yourself in a vulnerable position. If you have friends who write, ask for their opinion. Take a creative writing class. Reach out to a writer whose work you admire (there are plenty of wonderful writers who can help you—the kindness I’ve received from a few of them still amazes me today)—but please keep in mind that they’re people too, with plans and projects of their own, and you can’t expect them to give you an immediate response.
• Build your shield! Being a writer (or any kind of artist) means facing moments of disappointment—when your work is rejected or criticized (harshly or not), when you finally publish and expect to sell thousands of books, but you only managed to sell two copies (both bought by your mom), when you hold book launches and only three people show up, and you imagined a whole stadium. Taking the idea a step further as a joke, there’s a lot of truth in this saying—the life of an artist is like this: one day happy, one day sad!
• Be reasonable! Yes, you can’t be objective about your own writing (which is why it’s recommended to ask friends—and even strangers—to give you as objective an opinion as possible about your writing), but don’t go thinking you’re the next .................... (fill in the name of your favorite and/or well-known writer).
• Take a breath. Take it one step at a time, and don’t forget that as soon as you finish a manuscript (whether it’s your first or your tenth), you start the merry-go-round from scratch in search of a publisher to publish it (now do you understand why I want to be grand?!)
• Get better! To be a good writer, you need to read a lot (not necessarily books in the same genre as what you write) and write a lot. This combination is the most important exercise. You can’t do one without the other. It’s like having two dumbbells but deciding to use only one for one hand only. The difference will be noticeable in your arms.

 

That’s about it. Take everything above as guidelines, not certainties. In closing, I can only wish you lots of patience, self-compassion, and resilience.

What’s been helping me lately? Remembering the movie Mr. Aznavour and the singer's reaction to those who harshly criticized him, dismissing his talent or his chance to be known—“From today on, I’ll write a song every day, I’ll work harder and harder, and I’ll prove that I’m good!”

Reasons to be proud

We are constantly told that we need to grow, both personally and professionally. And to measure how much, we can use all kinds of KPIs (Key Performance Indicators).

Today, I registered an extraordinary growth. I received a text message from my sister. It was in Italian. 

KPIs are now exceeded!

The bell rings

The bell rings to announce... geometrical shapes.

A small note forgotten by Nephew becomes a sweet discovery. My Nephew is grand!

Dead Smoke - Nebojša Jevrić

The short stories included in 'Dead Smoke' are perhaps not the easiest to read, and the reader will go through various stages of despair in the face of the horrors of human existence. But this does not make them any less valuable or necessary, for as you read them, little gems of kindness, boldness, diligence, and stoicism shine through indulgently.

But perhaps the most valuable thing that any reader gains from reading these stories is the conviction that the past is not lost if we ignore it, but must be analyzed, discussed, and dissected, not necessarily to facilitate understanding, but to avoid repetition. Also remarkable is the way in which Jevrić captures the essence of each story, without too many detours or actions that fragment the reader's attention, who is immediately exposed to the core of the story, like a chasm yawning directly at their feet, leaving them no escape or chance to distract themselves.

 

A few excerpts:

‘...

The dead Serbs are being moved from the Serbian part of Sarajevo.

One man had enough money to take his dead father with him, but left his living mother at home.

 

…

The old man held a piece of paper with the message: "When I didn't have warm clothes, I had the strength to fight the cold. I was used to it; but when you promised to help me, I started to believe in promises. I gave up the fight. I believed you."

 

...’

Childish perspective

A large puddle on the park path. I walk in single file with other adults, finding a spot on the side where we can walk without getting too wet.

We walk slowly, careful not to step on each other. To our left, a little boy walks directly through the puddle and shows us what we may have already forgotten—walk straight ahead and you'll get there faster.

I smile and am glad I haven't forgotten that sometimes children can have bolder solutions than adults.

Splash, splash, let's go!

Risks

I was sitting and laughing with Nephew, remembering a Christmas funny moment. And, suddenly, Nephew says:

'I don't know why, but in ten years I expect to find this mentioned in one of your books.'

 

I was silent, amused, and then I concluded that it's not at all out of the question.

I think they say this about writers – be careful what you tell them, it could be the subject of their next book.