My book, The Corporation. Typologies and Survival Guide, is among the freshest economy and business books.
You can read here the article published on the site of economedia.
You can read here the article published on the site of economedia.
The launch was special too, since the public
had to work in order to receive an autograph, namely, to write with a fountain
pen on Ana’s recent book. Determined not to let people give excuses, Ana
personally handed as a gift a fountain pen to whomever did not have one. And so
they could have it at home to use it when they wish to.
A couple of days after the book launch, I opened Ana’s book and reread some of the notes there. I took the pen she gave me and wrote something down. Then, I put the book somewhere close to my desk, so that I don’t forget about writing with the fountain pen.
(Translation of the note and my
writing: I dreamed about a story, but I did not wake up to write it down. It’s
OK, I’ll find it there, where the dreams gather around. / And I will pay
special attention to them, the tricksters, since they love playing hide-and-seek
with me.
The smiling face is my Picasso-like signature, for it states that art cannot behave, especially naïve art.)
And so I was very happy to find Vlad mentioned a couple of times in this list.
Presented as a horror, the movie is more a
psychological thriller that keeps one nail-biting, while also
trying to find the answers to the questions addressed in the movie.
The two main actresses are very
convincing, and even though religion is put under scrutiny, one cannot leave
the movie theater without asking oneself – what else I believe because of marketing?
For example, the other day, I was talking with my cousin, and I
heard myself saying – Let’s live and give!
(the title is a known Romanian line from a famous sketch of the actor Toma Caragiu)
Recently, I was searching for something on some old cassettes (yes, I still have a cassette player & recorder thanks to a dear friend of mine who gave it to me), and I listened to an old sketch of the actors Vasile Murariu și Nae Lazarescu.
It’s been more than twenty five years since that sketch, but a line from it is still valid today:
‘When you steal, make sure you steal a lot so
that you have enough to bribe your way out!’
It’s been a while ever since I’ve read something similar, and I
truly enjoyed it. Words run at their whim, unhindered by some prejudice we may
have with regards to their meaning. They are free and only other words, those
that were not printed, could be the judge of them. An absurdist fiction or not,
since the absurd freely abounds in mainly all aspects of our lives, has at its
centre as characters Romulus and Remus, the writer’s imaginary friends, rascals
that unhurriedly play with prejudice, ideas, concepts and adjectives.
See below an excerpt from the book:
„...
Romulus and Remus just got a round cat
because they do no like right angles, they are too abrupt, too logical;
moreover, a square cat would have been too artistic.
... “
Recently, a colleague of mine asked the team
what they are grateful for with regards to this year. It was hard, especially
since it’s way easier to find reasons for not being grateful. And struggling so
much with this task, we realized, at the end, that each of us had at least four
or five reasons. How lucky are we!
Telling this to a friend, I realized there’s
another one I missed. And it’s truly sensational since this never happened
before. This year I got the chance to say good things about a person that I put
in the bad people box for some years now. How lucky am I! And how grateful to
be able to say I was wrong and here’s a human being!
It’s laughable since, by now, whenever one
reads amazing, one knows that it is definitely not, because one has already
experienced what amazing is and will say pass to that from now on. If you wish,
amazing is the younger sister of the word wow, which no longer stands for
anything valuable.
And let’s not forget about interesting,
even though I must admit that I’ve noticed people stopped using it. Now, they
prefer using challenging.
Today, I understood that courage behaves
the same way, like the blue eyes, it does not pass on just 'cause you want it to. One has to search for
it. And, sometimes, if you’re lucky enough and your folks insist upon searching
for it themselves, their courage inspires you to go and search for your own.
I’m on my way, and I’ve got a lot to do! Which I dearly hope
is the case for you, too.
Recently, I found out (and laughed) about Victoria Secretarian. A perfume greater than the one counterfeited from the famous brand Victoria’s Secret. If you want Victoria, you can get Victoria, it’s simple!
This is what autumn evenings can trigger in me. And when a memory calls, I realize I am not afraid of dark or other monsters. Or maybe just the despair one. But I have learned ways to face it, and I look over my collection of encouragements and praises that I’ve gathered from strangers and people I know and love for some years now, to help me move on and keep my eye on my goals. It helps a lot and I surely recommend you do the same!
It’s similar to
what I recently learned from a course by Ronald Heifetz, one can endure through
failure or despair if one stays in touch with the good that one’s doing.
You can find here the link to the live of the event.
No one can do it all alone, and the much needed change in the workplace cannot come unless we are more to demand it.
All the stories included in my book (interviews, getting hired, being
fired or resigning) are our stories. You are not alone, we are more!
On the 8th of October, at 18:30, the Carturesti Modul Bookstore welcomes us with open arms to talk about change. Come and join us while we talk about
what demotivates us and what we can do in order to improve things and create healthy work environments.
To get the conversation started, you can watch
again the interview I did with Derrick.
This spring, my new book, ‘Corporation. Typologies and Survival Guide’, started the change movement.
Since I received a lot of questions about
the book, I asked Derrick if we could film an interview and talk about them. Due to the typologies presented in my new book, people might get the
wrong idea, that I think all colleagues, managers, and all environments are
toxic. How better to prove otherwise than by having a former colleague
interview me?
The interview is in English, but it has Romanian subtitles (when watched on YouTube).
Derrick
and I talked about why it is important to talk about the typologies that drain
us in the workplace, why we need the change and how we can initiate it so that
we can work in a positive work environment, and what were my inspirations when writing it.
I hope you’ll enjoy this interview and do share your thoughts about it!
Today, someone said to me something so beautiful that I want to share.
When you're young, do take care of your body because as you get old it will avenge the bad things you did to it.
I gently opened the book and smiled at the author’s dedication because it reminded me of how my children’s story got to exist. My nephew is the one that gave me the idea for the Sugu the squirrel and Hapciu the dog, since squirrel is our conspirical.
Through the ‘Alexandru
the Rabbit’, Ana brought me a loss joy because it reminded me of the magical
powers we believed we had when we were children (and I don’t think that there
ever were children not to believe in their magical powers). We were one with
our favourite characters, all things had soul and reason, and communicating
with them was complex and fulfilling. We ignored or we did not even care what
others believed, since we knew that the connection with anything around us (be
it invisible) was strong and real. Culcus, the domestic rabbit, reminded me of
that magical connection we used to have and that we could not see differences
between us and the animals. Culcus easily renounces its fears and wants to
learn how to read, while the boy Alexandru starts to hop and to love the salad,
and soon both of them learn valuable things from each other.
But the greatest lesson is learning
about their own identity, about who they truly are inside themselves, and this
lesson is by far the most beautiful one, whether you’re human or rabbit.
If you're interested, I've got other books written by Ana Barton that I could recommend you - here and here.
The August issue of the cultural magazine Arges arrived with yet another beautiful surprise. Special thanks go to Mrs. Simona Fusaru.
Every one of us fights their own battles. From outside, everything
seems easy and we sometimes give ourselves hard times for not being able to
deliver some things, make true some plans, just as easy as it seems for others,
anyway. We have expectations, realistic or not, and they worn us down or their
reflection wear us down when we look at ourselves in the mirror and ask about
what we did wrong.
‘Shaworma with ice-cream’, Oana Ninica’s book, starts from there – faced with the reflection,
after the fall. In hindsight, if you have courage to look, you can analyse what
went wrong and you can choose if you are going to struggle some more or if you
will give up. Fear is the embedded character, in all pages of the book. It does
not do anything, but it is there, you feel it, you know it, you recognise it
from the things that happened to you. Sometimes, you laugh at it and at the ridicule
of letting yourself get carried away by it; and other times, fear seams a
Colossus that laughs at you and your try to measure your strength with it.
‘Fear kills. The opposite of fear is
not courage, as most would say. The opposite of fear is only the TRUTH.’
And at the end, something sublime.
If it were up to me, Vlad’s books would be studied at school and mentioned in the Romanian language and literature handbooks, and also always be present in the bookstores in the section ‘Bookseller's recommendation’.
But until then, my dear master still keeps on springing in his impish manner. I randomly ordered some books from an old books store, and the surprise of finding his and his wife’s names filled me with a tender joy. Vlad lives on!
Ever since I found out that the Master Manole’s legend can also be found in the Albanian culture, I kept wondering if I am really that open towards other cultures. Sure, an important condition is to also have contact with other cultures, not only to keep your mind open.
Here’s where literature does its magic. One can
travel and visit the entire planet and, fortunately, there are enough books to
support such a craving. And besides other lives to live through reading, one
can get some knowledge from more or less enchanting fragments of various
cultures and traditions that one can read about in books.
My folks raised us up on reflections and
sayings. Rare were the situations when mom and dad did not have a saying to
relate it to. So once I saw this book, I gladly embraced it. These below are
the reflections that I loved the most, maybe they inspire and soothe you as
well.
“….
Just like a commanding officer with many troops
cannot be seen as courageous, so a person with many opinions cannot be seen as
intelligent.
For the evil person, a bad person is better
than one thousand reasonable persons.
The heart is not like a tablecloth, to open it
in front of anyone.
To write well means – in the same time – to
think well, to feel well and to express well.
Just like rain or flood cannot extinguish the
fire that burns inside the ground, so must one not let the failures, which are
inevitable at the start of a new and especially noble creation, get the best of
one and make one loose hope. If a good creation were to happen without failures
and difficulties, then it would definitely loose its significance.
.... “
All has been already talked about, as they say. And while listening to it again today, I put down some excerpts from Toma’s sketch called A Convinced
Alpinist:
Oh, it seems there are risks when you are tree, too... some may come
and dig you into a hole.. well, they do that whether you are or not a tree,
as well.
Again, participate in meetings were actually nothing is set and we are forced to waste time in vain!
As if the manager does not know he is a groveller. The manager knows,
but still he lets him get away with it. Unfortunately, they are still getting
away with it!
The manager invited me to exchange opinions about the groveller. After
the exchange was made, I was almost changed into an unemployed person position.
He knew exactly what to do and say to make sure he would get the best payment.
The past as alleviation and not a vessel for all complaints regarding
the present is the theme of the novel. If you were to live in a period from the
past, which one would you choose? Started as an experiment to alleviate the
pains of Alzheimer patients, the past as solution is welcomed by sane people
and nations, and one cannot help as spectator (for Gospodinov has a certain
gift to make the reader feel like they are inside the narrative) to ponder upon
the dilemma.
Even from the very first novel that I read by him, Gheorghi Gospodinov
has equipped me with a certitude – there is a magical connection between
nations and time clearly visible through literature. Wherever and whenever they
might live, the writers seem to be connected through a muse that speaks the
same language and manifests more or less similar preoccupations. This idea was
even clearer when I read this book by Oscar Wilde and found similar thoughts
about the past, what it means to be a writer, the relation between a writer and
their characters and many more.
And to convince you to read the book, see below some excerpts from the ‘Time Refuge’:
“Thus, I was to present myself as a writer, a more
innocuous profession but for which no identification card is given. “
“Gaustin, the one that I met in flesh and blood
only after having created him.”
“To become satiated with a foreign past, just
like with the bananas you craved for all your life. The past is not only what
happened to you. Sometimes, it is also what you have imagined.”
Today I lived a moment similar to those at the Oscar’s. But without the glitters and gown. No pressure, I’ll be keeping the gown, who knows?!, I might need it soon.
I was watching Alexandra’s video and it
knocked my socks off to hear my novel ‘The Sewing Club’ mentioned in the category The Greatest Surprise of the
Year. If you want to watch the moment, you can find it starting with 4:51
from the video below.
The greatest joy of a writer is to be read.
Thank you, Alexandra, for the joy you gave me by reading my novel, and the
honor you made me by presenting and recommending my book to other interested
readers!
And if you want to watch the video review
Alexandra made to the novel, check this video below by starting with
minute 3:31.
Somebody asked me about the spark that made me
write this book. Injustice, abuse, double standard, fear, working in vain, and
many more. But then I pondered on it a little bit and realized that actually it
all started because I felt alone faced with the above. And because I felt
alone, I mistakenly thought I was the only one that did not abide the general rule, that I
was a misfit, and the only one that did not accept or was indignant about certain
behaviors or abusive situations.
Talking with people (colleagues, former
colleagues, friends, family), I found out that I was not actually alone. And if this should
be the only goal of this book, be it that nobody ever feels alone. This book is
the voice waiting for others to join in. For nobody can do everything by
themselves, and the change we so desperately need in the workplace can only
happen if we are many to claim it. And all the stories in the book (from going to
interviews, from getting hired, resigning or dismissal) are our stories.
For certain typologies, I have also included
some ways to stand your ground because sometimes the way we act to certain
behaviors can protect us from negativity, lack of responsibility or even
harassment.
And why should I read this book, you may wonder,
aren’t there enough crazy people at my workplace already?! Now, I’m supposed to
take them with me during my quiet moment of reading?
Well, you should read this book because the sad thing is that you have already brought them into your life, your home, and they have already ruined your peace of mind. Also, they are the ones responsible for you quivering with stress. By reading this book you’ll be able to recognize them and to classify them by typologies, since nothing can be fixed unless it’s defined first.
Read the book and talk about it with your
colleagues, friends, and family. Talking about it means finding solutions, and
solutions will bring change. And we do need change in the workplace, in
general. Only together we can create positive work environments!
A heartfelt thank you to those that came at my book launch at the Bookfest Book Fair, but also to those that could not make it but sent me all their support and congratulations!
Come Thursday, the 30th of May, at 7 p.m. at the booth of the Paralela 45 Publishing House (booth C13, pavilion B2) at the launch of my most recent book ‘The Corporation. Typologies and survival guide’.
Read below some details about the book:
Do you ask yourself if you are
one of those workers at the ‘Working-in-Vain Cooperative’? Or if you have gone
mad or if there are more like you that need to have clarity, strategy, communication
and support?
No, you are not crazy, nor are
you alone. We are many. And our stories are included in this book. Stories that
present various types of colleagues and bosses, which I am very sure you have
already encountered during your work experience. I made sure to also include
experiences regarding interviews, resignations or dismissals. At the end,
instead of a conclusion, you will find a Rom-English dictionary of phrases used
in corporations and other places, too. All, including the dictionary, may
suffer additions. For certain typologies, I have also included some ways to
stand your ground because sometimes the way we act to certain behaviors can
protect us from negativity, lack of responsibility or even harassment.
And why should I read this book,
you may wonder, aren’t there enough crazy people at my office already?! Now, I’m
supposed to take them with me during my quiet moment of reading?
Well, you should read the book
because the sad thing is that you have already brought them into your life,
your house, and they have already ruined your peace of mind. Also, they are the ones
responsible for you quivering with stress. By reading this book you’ll be able
to recognize them and to classify them by typologies, since nothing can be
fixed unless it’s defined first.
Read the book, laugh, ponder on
the stories and talk with your colleagues, friends, and family about the
typologies presented in the book. Talking about it means finding solutions, and
solutions will bring change. And we do need change in the work environments, in
general. Only together we can create positive work environments!
Reading Vlad Musatescu’s letters to Dodo Niță, I could not see a great difference to the writing style I was accustomed to while reading his books. He wrote letters the same way he wrote novels, and I remembered that I started inventing words after I had discovered his works. There’s a certain gentleness in almost all the lines from his letters, not only the custom one at the end.
I’ll try to translate below some of the things
he wrote in the letters and which made me laugh:
„... because there are possibilities that
enable the possibility and others that don’t”
„It’s formidabilous!”
„It hasn’t matter, life is in front of us.”
The Arges Literary Magazine was
mentioned in the book, which was really funny since the new issue had just
arrived at my house.
The Arges Literary Magazine – then and now
It seems that by the end of this year, the
site dedicated to Vlad will be up and running - https://vladmusatescu.ro/ . This makes me
really happy and I cannot wait to browse through it.
And at the end of the book, I was again struck
by the craving for a big tomato salad. But summer will come and Oxheart tomato
will be available. And then, my dear master, I will honor you again!
Until recently, the book could be found only online at Carturesti bookshops, but now you can see it in their shelves. Here's a photo of it made by my husband.
The book can be ordered from here - Corporația. Tipologii și ghid de supraviețuire – Editura Paralela 45 Editura Paralela 45
When it comes to our jobs, working in vain is not at all a foreign concept. An example? Until you receive the OK from your manager about the newsletter that needs to be sent, the campaigns included in it have already expired and you must redo the work. Or you must remake the slides in PowerPoint or (re)color the cells in Excel at the manager’s request until you find out that the project has been cancelled. Well, I did not stop at giving one example, it’s true.
I am happy to announce
the publishing of ‘The Corporation. Typologies
and Survival Guide’. I gathered here stories about going to job
interviews, getting hired, resigning, and getting fired. Then, I divided
colleagues and bosses into categories, specifically those that suck all our
energy and motivation dry at our workplaces. I included some tips and tricks in
order to survive such typologies, and at the end a corporation lexicon (a
Rom-English dictionary used by people in Romania, especially in corporations).
More details you can
find by accessing this link – and you can also browse through the book
He speaks so passionately about music, instruments, influences, adding historical data that leaves one enchanted.
And when he starts singing, before you know it you’re in another world. A world where your body no longer belongs to you, and some elves are moving it about. But Bogdan Simion makes sure to bring you back gently to where you left from, and then you remain bewitched thinking of the place you just visited and you know that you’ll do everything in your power to listen to him again so that you can meet the wonder half way through.
When one receives a parcel from home for the garden on the balcony.
For those unfamiliarized with the vocabulary used in Tulcea, chushka means hot pepper.
And so another year has passed and I was thinking about what paragraph to prepare for you to read from Vlad Musatescu, when, searching on the internet, a picture I have never seen before of Vlad drew my attention. Then, I read the title and I was very happy. Vlad lives on because some people refuse to let him be forgotten.
Today, the book
arrived, and I browsed through it very thrilled. I cannot wait to read it!
If you want to read it
as well, you can find here more information.
Congratulations, Mr.
Dodo Nita! And many thanks.
And below, a couple of paragraphs to give you the crave of reading this book:
“… Wrappings were,
in those times, more important than the contents... “
“I went back to the vineyard,
and I laid down next to grandpa, who was sound asleep, as it’s usually the case with peasants. Some people go to sleep at dusk and wake up at 4 or 5 in the
morning or when God taps on their shoulders. I dreamed the most colored dreams
and in my sleep I could hear the grapes ripen.”
“… he had been a pantomime
professor in Paris, before the war. A slightly odd art that entails people
playing the game of make belief, moving about so convincingly that one believes
they are truly doing it. If I think about it, he should have been a hero in the
current work environment... “
When she first stopped
me, I thought she really needed to know the time. Now, I know better. She needs
the interaction we so desperately need as well. And maybe she arrived at the
conclusion that no one is bothered if asked about the time.
Today, I saw her
again. She stopped and asked the neighbor about the time. The neighbor replied
with the swiftness of one that is accustomed to such a question, especially
since they always have their gate open and thus are subjected daily to the question.
But nevertheless, the neighbor replies because sometimes we understand without
actually realizing that an answer is more than that, it’s helping the other keep
carrying on and it shows kindness, which we all need.
The greatest joy of a writer is to be read.
The ‘Sewing Club’
novel has been mentioned in Alexandra’s most recent video.
The writer dearly waits
Alexandra’s impressions after having read the novel.
When I travel, I try to buy books written by local authors. I love to discover, through their books, the things they have in common with Romanian society or concerns, but also Romanian literature. And a special enchantment comes from discovering the differences.
Unfortunately, there are only a couple of main actors on the market, and the others hardly or never get in the spotlight, and it’s such a shame. This is visible not only in the literature that gets to Romania, but also in other arts, such as movie, theatre, music, etc. I know of different cultural programs meant to promote other less marketized cultures, but still what is in fashion takes the spotlight.
Aside from the abovementioned discoveries,
another wonderful thing happens – I can travel any time I want to those
respective countries, albeit only by thought.
This week, I travelled to Croatia and Italy,
as you can see below.