Monday, 15 November 2021

Four reflections of the truth – Ana-Maria Negrilă


This first historical novel of Ana-Maria Negrilă is a true delight. The descriptions of towns, attire and craftsmanship from Romanian Middle Ages are skillfully and elaborately made.

While reading, my heart went out to Stefan’s destiny, admiring his tolerance, hope and talent as a drawer. Stefan’s story could be anyone’s story, if we should think of it in relation to humans’ longing for discovery and knowledge. Nevertheless, his destiny puts him through a lot of trials when Stefan decides to leave Suceava town and to accompany Miro, an energic but mysterious young man.

Past the twist in the relationship with Miro, Stefan wants to know the truth behind Miro’s decision. It is this quest for finding the truth the essence of all human endeavors, and Stefan vibrates at the call of such quest. Maybe here’s an explanation to the title of the book, juxtaposing in two dimensions four mirrors to cover the length and latitude (given that Stefan wants so much to wander the Earth), the truth cannot escape us.

I am very happy to recommend you this book, which I am sure you will love.

Friday, 5 November 2021

Good Deeds

I feel particularly happy today. I am floating on musical clouds.

My folks brought me some old tapes from home and I spent the last few days listening to old albums and also my recordings. What a time that was! When I used to rewind tapes by using a pencil...

And even more, I discovered audio memories. My cousin and I recorded ourselves while singing. Of course I was the loudest, even from those early times my talent could be spotted.

And here I am again playing the game of gratefulness because without a good friend of mine, I could not have listened to these wonders. Long may he live! But especially, I am grateful for those people that, like me, still care for things that are outdated but functional.

And here, a song as a present from this tape.

Wednesday, 27 October 2021

Apples and pies

They say that one never grows old in the eyes of one’s parents. Not even at 5. Not even at 30. Not even at 50 years old.

When so few things remain the same, it’s such a relief to discover that some things (good ones) never change.

And here it is, the long-time-ago-student still receives packages from her folks (this time, the intermediate being the sister).

Thursday, 21 October 2021

Attitude

I'm so very proud of my latest acquisition.

It so happens that it applies to reality more than I initially thought.

Thursday, 7 October 2021

How to Be More Organized


My father is a wise man. As time goes by and I’m getting older, I’m starting to realize he is even wiser than I thought.

When I was a child, he always used to insist that I should not leave my things laying around, and that I should always set a place for them and place them there.

 

If you learn to put one thing in its place it’s going to help you a lot, on the long run, because you can always go fetch it and find it there. And you can do that even with your eyes closed.

 

This is true, actually. I took his advice and it turned out to be very useful.

I reckon this is how I developed my organizational skills. By simply applying his piece of advice, I was efficient. Then, I started feeling the need for clarity and planning. A need that I always try to fulfil in my professional and personal relationships.

If things are not clear and well defined for neither of the parties (or even only for one of them), the standstill occurs. And standstill cannot be surpassed by only one party’s efforts.

 

Until recently, when talking about organizational skills, a reference was always made regarding multitasking. There hardly were job interviews without the parties (interviewer and interviewee) making a reference to this magic element.

Fortunately for all of us, in the meantime, researchers have found that multitasking is not quite a great skill. And that, actually, the human brain can only focus on one task at a time, while multitasking means that efficiency and performance are at risk. Regardless of the country of origin of these researchers, I am glad to hear about this discovery and I support it.

If you come to think about it, the truth about multitasking was right in front of us, on American highways (I guess there were on other countries’ highways too, but the first that I heard of were the American ones) – Don’t text and drive! We just could not believe it.

 

Tricks for being more organized

 

Take notes.

It’s good to take notes about what one considers to be important. But keep in mind that we have a particular way in which our brain processes information. When things are not clear enough, the brain has the tendency to fill in the gaps (for unclear or missing details).

Thus, be careful how you take notes!

I am truly comfortable with using Word, and I love to take notes on such a document. But I have friends and colleagues that use all kinds of applications. The important thing is to find what works for you.

 

The calendar

Try taking notes on a day-follows-day approach. That is, write the task to be done tomorrow and continue by mentioning those to be done the next day after tomorrow and so on and so forth. Do not forget to include the date. This really helps me not to forget a task.

For example:

05.02 – must sign document X.

 

To have a better visibility on what's next, as soon as I solve a task from the day I delete it. But you can delete them all at the end of the day.

And if I was not able to deliver on one task, I move it to another day.


I hope this inspires you to better organize your tasks!

Saturday, 2 October 2021

Celebrity


When one writes a text, one’s main mission is to try and be as clear as possible. But one cannot control the interpretation the reader will give to the text.

The other day, I published on my Facebook page the article about reputation. Hearing my sister laugh, my nephew wanted to know why. And so my sister showed him the post.

My nephew:

‘Did she write this? And can anyone read it? … Well, at least she did not give away my name!’