Wednesday, 31 August 2022

Siri Hustvedt – Blazing World


‘Don’t let anyone tell you that there are no magic words.’

This phrase really got to me. Especially since it reminded me of the fact that I already knew that. An oak is not felled at one stroke, my sister once told me in a grey period of my life, at my first coming to Bucharest. And I pulled through for I had understood this.

Man is least himself when he talks in his own person. Give him a mask, and he will tell you the truth, Oscar Wilde said. Can literature be a mask? What about artistic creations?

Yes. Siri Hustvedt’s novel brings arguments to support this. Also, there is an entire discussion about forms within it. How we perceive them, how we represent them, how we subject to them, how we were taught to look at them, to accept them and to live according to all prejudices we have against them.

 

There is a question that I really appreciated and with which I would like to end:

Was there ever a work of art that was not burdened with the expectations and prejudices of the viewer, reader or listener, regardless of their degree of education or refinement?

Monday, 22 August 2022

Movie and Music

I recently watched the Meddler (2015) on Netflix and I dearly recommend it. I especially liked the music, aside from the main character, Marnie, beautifully played by Susan Sarandon.

I leave you with this song below that keeps coming throughout the movie.



Sunday, 21 August 2022

Between Two Enemy Lines – Oana David


Oana David’s novel is a recommendation to stop and do a little soul-searching, especially of our own prejudice, but also to reminisce and ponder upon historical consciousness.

I would be terribly wrong to categorize it as a mere love story, even though one is presented. For I understood the novel as a manifest for love in all forms (for one’s family, for one’s country, for traditions, people, places, for the past, present and, especially, for the future).

The dialogue exchange is fluid, even the couple’s. Minute descriptions present Luli’s (the main character) feelings and thoughts, but also the places where she goes to. The part of the novel where the bombing of Bucharest, in the spring of 1944, is described is really shattering, and the author manages to transpose the reader right in the middle of the events.

I dearly recommend you to read Oana David’s novel.

Sunday, 7 August 2022

Slovakia - our visit

My husband suggested Slovakia for our summer holiday this year, and since we had a really nice experience in Slovenia last year, I was really looking forward to it.

We started our journey in Kosice. It has a very nice city centre, and like for almost anything we saw in Slovakia, the architecture is similar to what you can find in Austria or Hungary (and in Romania, Sibiu or Sighisoara).

Presov

A small visit through Presov, and it reminded me of the experience we had in Albania, in terms of finding Romania promoted.


Spis Castle

Slovakia has many castles one could visit. From them all, we visited Spis. The view is really nice and visitors are encouraged to come there and have a picnic.

Vysoke Tatry

The Tatra Mountains are the highest mountain range from the west Carpathian Mountains. In Slovakia, they are divided into the High and the Low Tatra Mountains.

We stayed in a lovely cottage that had quick access to the chairlift that brought us to the mountains.

Kremnica

This is such a lovely small town, built on important gold mines! It is the site of the oldest still-working mint in the world. And a bird’s eye view from the castle.

Cicmany village

This is a lovely spot to stop and see the painted wooden houses.

Banska Bystrica

Such a lovely town. Unfortunately, we were only passing by, but it defintely deserved at least one day to explore.



Nitra

A cute little town, with a castle to visit.

Bratislava

Like mostly everywhere in Slovakia, there are a lot of bronze statues in Bratislava, too.

And icecream 😊. And the Danube.


Komarno

Right at the border with Hungary, there is a small and lovely town called Komarno. Attention must be given while strolling through the city center because you might miss a small entrance to a city center within the city center.


Slovakia in literature

What kind of writer would I be, if I did not show interest in literature?!

Everytime I visit a place (here’s a funny story from when I visited Slovenia last year), I like to take that feeling with me. So I buy tea and books by local writers.

Unfortunately, in the smaller cities, I could not find translated books by Slovak writers. But I was lucky to find these below in Bratislava.

I’ve only managed to read Ivana Dobrakovova’s Bellevue (which I really enjoyed), and I am looking forward to reading the others.

Wednesday, 13 July 2022

Let’s Stop doing Things at the Last Moment


I do not know how others do it ....

Oh, but I know. A lot of people complain about this and I also found out about it since my very first job.

If a conclusion should be drawn regarding how people are generally working, regardless of country or industry, it would be this – people follow the doing-things-at-the-last-moment procedure.

We all got carried away rather easily in following it. And no reproach can be made to a certain person, industry or country. Nowadays, we live in a fast-forward society, where everything changes really fast and this also reflects upon our tasks.

I once attended a job interview that convinced me to never apply for that company ever again. When the potential manager told me that the thing she cherished the most was that she and her team did not have to work on Saturdays, the alarm went on. And the pitching sound really got to uncomfortable when she started presenting the team and how it should learn not to take things so personally and that sometimes projects are abandoned and the team must make sure to succeed with the last minute changes. I do not even want to think how many Munch’s living paintings could be found in that team! It is one thing to be adaptable, and another to have as sole certainty that everything changes with no planification beforehand.

This is how I come to realize that, often enough, beyond the discussions about values, some teams have only one strategy – everything done at the last moment.

It is understandable that not everything can be foreseen or anticipated. And, sometimes, it’s fine that things are like this. But having to deliver projects without a small planification and vision could be dangerous.


Why is it dangerous to do things in the last moment?

Employee’s motivation is most affected when things are done with not much discussion about why things change, and the task must be delivered urgently. Even for those employees that do not have organizational skills, this could lead to loss of motivation.

Of course, when unexpected things happen stress is triggered by them. And with the stress, health problems emerge too. How many of us have already seen colleagues and managers get sick due to the stress at work?!

Lacking strategy is also damaging productivity on the long run. People talk more and more about strategy, but I get the feeling that only few really know what it means. If a strategy is mainly concerned with the goal and less about resources and anticipating eventual issues on the way, that is not how strategy is supposed to be. Also, if the main participants are not informed regarding the strategy and cannot bring their contribution to various stages of it (whether through indications regarding projects or information about other participants and/ or projects/ issues/ advantages, etc.) and be able to share their knowledge/ advice, that’s no strategy. There are cases, of course, when participants speak their minds but are afterwards ignored. That’s no strategy either.

 

What works

A while ago, I was telling you about a saboteur I used to work with. It did no matter how well my team organized its tasks, that person would always hinder our delivery of the project. So we came with the only solution we had at hand to change things for the better – we gave that person another deadline than the official one (mainly, an earlier deadline). And it worked. Having some time especially for the delays caused by this person helped us deliver in time our project.

 

Can proactivity be learned?

YES.

Like any good thing, one realizes its importance when one does not have it. After several experiences, and having thought about improvements for my tasks (the agile method, to the best of my knowledge), I realized proactivity can do a lot of good.

How does one start?

With simple steps. And sketching the plan. Afterwards, and according to needs, one will learn if one needs a more elaborate plan (namely, a more detailed plan) or a mere enumeration of tasks and the people they are assigned to.

But proactivity does not stop here. A plan must be constantly checked to see if things unfold as planned and interventions must be made when there are changes or delays.

 

It is wonderful to have to rely on people that are easily adaptable, and I won’t deny that this is actually very important nowadays.

But for calmer minds, an increased productivity, a lower stress level and, why not?!, a long-term vision, I dearly recommend proactivity and less doing things at the last moment.

Tuesday, 5 July 2022

Things I do not want to do


I started rewatching AfterLife (2019), a show that impressed me dearly and which I cannot stop but recommend to people that haven’t seen it.

And in the first episode, there is a moment where Tony says he’s tired of doing things he does not want to do. And it got me thinking, aren’t we all?!

A quick breath and I realized that there is a whole list of things I am tired of doing (whether I am or not an active participant):

1. Watching incompetents get away without being held accountable

2. Watching the above people laughing in my face for not being held accountable

3. Witnessing cruelty, stupidity, and shallowness

4. Being held accountable for what I did not do, when I did do it

5. Being subjected to double standard

6. Repeating myself, over and over

7. Not being taken seriously

8. Wasting my time

9. Being held accountable for being proactive and suggesting changes

10. Being subjective to others’ aggressive behavior


And you, what are you tired of doing?